Personal Awareness

Since 2004, changing our relationship status on Facebook has somehow become more meaningful to us. We can share the news of our newly committed relationship to our family and friends, but oddly enough, letting Facebook know is the highest level of confirmation for them…and for the person who changes it. It’s a beautiful thing when […]

If you’re struggling to find out why you keep attracting the wrong people, you can start by looking within yourself. We can point the finger and say it’s “them”, but deep down inside, we have to find fault in our own doings. There’s an inimical pattern when we’re picking the same type of folks to […]

I gotta be honest…. I didn’t know much about Actress/Author/Director, Lena Dunham, so I googled her before writing this piece. Reading about her work, and getting a glimpse of her social media, I’ve come to some understanding of why this advocate for positive self-image and feminism uses her insecurities as part of her of humor….particularly […]

By now, you’ve probably seen Kanye West’s video for “Fade”, Ft. his G.O.O.D Music signee, Teyana Taylor. If you haven’t caught it, go to ‘Tidal’.  Kanye premiered his video during the 2016 MTV Music Video awards Sunday night. Anyway… I’m convinced every other viewer wanted to throw their refrigerator away and hit the gym, after watching Teyana, […]

It’s common to see an entertainer transform along with their music. That’s how they keep their ever-changing image up with the times. However, we can’t help but wonder what goes on in the mind of a public figure who gets permanent facial alterations to the point where they become unrecognizable. As a fan, I used […]

When we mourn the death of a celebrity, it hits us like a ton of bricks. The celebrity may be someone we grew up to, listening to their music, or watching their movies/shows. That formulates a personable connection to the celebrity, who when suddenly dies, leaves us in mourning as if that celebrity was a […]

As women, we love feeling loved by a guy we adore. Hell! we love feeling LIKED by the guy we adore. Sometimes, we focus so much on how great that feeling is, we’ll somehow develop fear of losing that feeling. We choose two ways to prevent that from happening; play hard to get, or the […]

It’s a common problem, particularly for the women, to over-emphasize the chemistry she has with a man based off their sexual relationship. It’s unfortunate that we don’t often recognize what we’re doing until we’ve already given the goodies. There are a few important things to consider when you’re sexually involved with someone. A few things […]

I’ve had a chance to watch a show that I now consider to be one of my favorites, Black Ink Chicago. The cast of this show, both the men and women, are some good looking brothers and sisters, I mean natural beauty with no enhancements, which to me is refreshing to see on reality tv these […]

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